What is the most IMPORTANT CAREER CHOICE a WOMAN makes?

I was in a quest for answers to the question “What is the most IMPORTANT CAREER CHOICE a woman makes?”…

In an attempt to find the answer I did some research – both primary and secondary. So I read several publications on the subject and even several blogs which directly / indirectly covered this subject. More importantly, I put forth this question to the women in my network – irrespective of their age, background (education and otherwise), profession, ethnicity or where they currently resided.

And along the way, I found several “RIGHT ANSWERS” and discovered that there was no “ONE RIGHT ANSWER”

Here are the words of wisdom from the wise, experienced and successful woman….
Be driven by passion and purpose rather than paycheck and pension. Security is important but satisfaction and significance secures us far beyond the 9 to 5.” BY Angela Maiers, Founder and President of Maiers Education Services
I feel that the best career choice is the one which allows you to make peace with yourself. I am in my third career avatar for a reason. It is the eternal quest for doing work that is meaningful to me..” BY Dr Tanvi Gautam , Managing Partner of Global People Tree.
“’The Most Important Career Choice You’ll Make Is Who You Marry‘” BY Sheryl Sandberg, Facebook COO

As anticipated, the answers were diverse. However as I analyzed the responses I observed that the answers varied significantly based on “THE PHASE OF LIFE A WOMAN WAS IN” and there were 4 distinct groups here:
Group 1 – Single
Group 2 – Married
Group 3 – Married with young kids (Less than 5 years old – i.e., Prior to formal school)
Group 4 – Married with older kids (More than 5 years old – i.e., Once they start formal school)

In this blog, I have listed the key responses based on absolute majority or something which was very unique that it was worth writing about.

The idea of this blog is to share a woman’s view on what she thinks / feels / believes is the most IMPORTANT CAREER CHOICE that will determine the course of her career and life

Group 1 – Single
* The choice of the profession itself especially in answer to “Why am I in this profession?” – Is it her choice OR rather the lack of choice that brought her here.
* The education she pursued and her performance in education because this has a huge bearing on the start she receives in her career in terms of the organization she is employed with, the role and the starting salary – These have a huge bearing on the way her career turns out!
* The organization she is employed with especially in terms of the salary, the kind of colleagues / people she interacted with and the policies with respect to gender equality and diversity
* The kind of work exposure she has early in her career and the opportunities she pursued
* The kind of boss she worked with – More importantly, in terms of his / her own personal ambition, leadership style and the power / authority he / she and the nature of influence on her own career path and growth
NOTE: In fact many women in this category did not appreciate the emphasis to the word “WOMAN”.

Group 2 – Married
* Whom she married because this determines if she will have a career at all and also how far she can go in her career
* Organizational policies which enable a woman to make career changes / transitions to settle into life after matrimony. For e.g.: Transfer to a new location, etc.
* The kind of boss she worked with – More importantly if he was willing to guide and mentor her at a phase of transition in her life (This was not something which a woman can choose, but in hindsight many women felt it makes a huge difference in the learning, thinking and how your career spans out)
* To define success independent of external influences. And the simple choice is to listen to that little voice within ourselves – it knows BEST what you want the most.

Group 3 – Married with young kids (Less than 5 years old – i.e., Prior to formal school)
* The choice to have a career despite all odds on both the personal and professional front
* The choice of the profession itself and if it permitted some form of work life balance to be able to juggle between professional responsibilities and personal commitments
* The choice of the organization especially in terms of some flexibility in policies to help strike a balance between personal priorities and professional responsibilities. For e.g: Work from Home, Extended Maternity Leave to take care of your children
* The choice of the organization especially in terms of the openness to make career transitions based on personal priorities and needs, and yet has a meaningful professional career
* The tenure in the current organization, that is, really the effect of past career choices to stick to an organization – This has a huge bearing on the kind of flexibility you can exercise because you have proved yourself and your work is valued by the team!
* Whom she marries because this determines if she will have a career at all (especially after children are born) and also how far she can go in her career. Many women stated that they had to stop / change gears in their careers / change their careers itself simply because they did not have the required support system at home to help them through the initial parenting years. And then the sheer inertia or social pressures kept them away from work!
* To choose a career that gives her self-esteem, satisfaction and some financial independence
* To pursue an entrepreneurial journey and be on her own as this gives her the freedom and flexibility on her time, ambition, passion and growth
* To follow her instinct and do what she feels is right at that moment
* To invest in her own health and well-being as this determines which careers she can take and how long her career will eventually pan out simply because initial parenting years are demanding physically and emotionally. Add to that the mental pressure of professional work is sure to be a recipe for health issues, if she does not take adequate care of herself
NOTE: Most women in this phase of their life felt that the “choice of career” was actually a “life choice”. All women in this phase responded that the choice should be one which makes her happy, peaceful and content as only then she would be able to do justice to her role as a mother and a career-oriented woman.

Group 4 – Married with older kids (More than 5 years old – i.e., Once they start formal school)
* The personal network she is associated with because this greatly influences her thought process and how she perceives herself, her career and her contribution to the family, society and world at large
* Her own passion and desire to work and carve out a meaningful career for herself by doing work that she is passionate about
* Whom she marries (purely in terms of financial standing) because this determines if she can pursue a career she loves or needs to pursue her career to make money to contribute to the household
* The organization she is working in and the willingness / openness to accept woman at the top and in senior leadership roles (Many women said that there still existed a “glass ceiling” for women in senior positions)
* A career choice which leaves her completely financially independent. In today’s age, families don’t last but careers’ last!
* A career choice of something she excels at and brings value to the table as only then would employers or clients be willing to accommodate her requests for flexibility to manage personal and professional commitments.
* To NOT have a Career (This was a surprise for me – But there were some who wrote saying that the best career choice was to NOT have a career!)

In conclusion, I’d like to say that every woman makes her own choices in career and in life. There is NO right or wrong. It all ultimately depends on YOU! – Your choices, your priorities, your health, your circumstances, your passion, your purpose, your strength, your preferences, your desires, your interests, your family, your support systems…

Ending with something for every woman to think about:
1) Do you really KNOW what you want out of your career? Out of your life? – If not, think about it!
2) Do you really ENJOY your work? If not, think about why not?
3) Do you really think that your work and contributions are VALUED by those around you? If not, ponder over it!
4) Do you really put your BEST foot FORWARD in all that you do? If not, why not?

I’d like to hear your views on “What is the MOST IMPORTANT career choice a woman makes”? Leave a comment to let me know…


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